Use multiple identities

Create a "social" email address and have all normal communications sent there. But keep a private email address that your lover doesn't know about, with a different password, naturally. Only check your private email from your cell phone, or from your work computer. Never do it where someone might accidentally see something.

Chances are, of course, that your victim -- oops! I mean loved one -- doesn't care. In fact, they probably couldn't care less about what's in your email, but there's a good reason for doing this.

By taking special care to only have perfectly innocent communications coming in on your email, you will have the freedom to leave your email up where anybody can read it. And you will also have nothing to fear about handing out the password -- which you will do with regularity!

Always remind your stalk-ee that you have nothing to hide, and then remind them that they have your email address if they ever want to check.

You now have "moral high ground"... a valuable commodity for a stalker! This will come in handy later.